ANGER
by Wolfgang
What happened
at the world trade center is hitting at one of the core issues that
I have been working with for a while.
Lets talk
about anger. In my world anger is a certain type of energy, just
like love. This energy can be send through space and time and keeps
on going till it is neutralized by forgiveness and love. Being angry
floods our body with toxins and shuts down our immune system.
Being angry
burdens our liver, which is one of our major detoxification organs.
Interestingly enough, a bad liver or an imbalanced liver meridian
will influence us to be more angry or grouchy, lashing out on
impulse. Anybody knowledgeable in traditional Chinese medicine
will very this.
Anger generally
generates more anger unless it is met as said before with forgiveness and love.
Anger has pretty much the opposite effect of love. Love nurtures and
is a cure. Anger creates disharmony and ultimately destroys its
target.
Anger comes to
us through our family traditions. It can start right in the womb of
the mother. The unborn is merged emotionally with its mother. If the
mother is angry a lot, the child most likely will carry the same
anger.
If the parents
yell at or beat their children chances are that the kids will either
grow angry and very resentful or become broken, thinking it is all
their fault, which is a form of anger directed at the self.
Unfortunately in our parental traditions love is seen as a reward
for good behavior. This is a very sad misconception. Love is the
healer. Love is our inborn right, not a reward to be traded for
pleasant behavior. Yet love and anger are traditionally used as the
carrot and stick of behavior modification.
Anger and
violence are closely connected. People store more and more anger in
their liver till it comes to a breaking point where the energy is
being discharged in a violent act. Angry people fight more. Angry
fathers that abuse their children create children that will be angry
and tend to beat their children in turn. These traditions of tough
love have been going on for many generations. They are an integral
part of an imbalanced patriachical society.
Anger and
resentment can built over long periods of time. Bickering and
over lording parents for example can create a rebellious child over
time. Physical abuse only speeds up the process. Do you think that
to bully a child into your idea of desired behavior will yield good
results in the long run?
We males have a
fascination with fighting. It excites us talking about it. But I
cannot forget when a friend, who witnessed a lot of street fights,
told me that all the big street fighters that hurt a lot of people
where all living in miserable conditions. He said hurting peoples
bodies is very bad karma.
Actually it is
bad karma in several ways. Lets assume person A and B have a
confrontation in a dark back alley. A breaks B's knee to win
the fight. A thinks he won the fight and the story is over. Probably
not ... Every time B's knee hurts he will most likely send thoughts
of anger to A. Lets say B lives for 40 more years and his knee
deteriorates. B will probably project his anger and frustration unto
A for the rest of his live, every time he thinks about the fight or
the knee hurts.
This will have
a strong accumulative effect on person A. Thought forms travel to the
person they are directed at and will affect that person,
depending on the clarity and intensity of the thought forms. Curses
and blessings work on the same principle.
So please think
about it. When you get angry you hurt yourself by not feeling
good, by creating toxins in your body and you hurt the one that you
are angry at. Try to raise your vibration, which helps you get out
of your reptile brain, and maybe pray to the angels to help you find
a higher perspective to your problem.
For the person that does inner work it is recommended
to release old stuck anger that is still lingering from this or past
life times. I do not recommend that for moral, but practical
reasons. You will just feel al lot better once the anger is
released, less angry of course and less toxic. Love is easier to
receive or send and one feels lighter. Of course the re3lationship
with the person that we were angry will also improve.
I have seen old couples that hated each other, they
were green with toxins. It is understandable that in the course of a
long marriage quite a lot of frustration and anger can accumulate. If
not released it will poison the relationship. So letting go of anger
is nothing more than psychological or spiritual hygiene.
How to let go of anger?
There are many
ways this can be
done, here some simple ways:
1- Call on your spiritual support team according to
your belief system. That could be God, Jesus, Mother May, Buddha,
your spirit guides, your angels, your high self, to name e a few.
Say: "Dear . . . I ask for your loving presence
for the purpose of releasing anger. "
2- Say: " I ask that everything I ask for will only
manifest if it is for: the highest good, in divine harmony, with the
most benevolent outcomes."
3- Say: " I
ask that any stuck emotions in the
category of anger from past and this life please be released now, as
there is no more need for me carry them around."
4-
Say: "First I release all blocks and opposition in
me that prevent the release of these stuck anger emotions. Please
find all, remove all and clear all and continue till finished. Thank
you."
5- Be still till no more energy flow is being
perceived. Or just wait for 30 seconds give or take. Smile.
6- Say: "I ask that any stuck emotions in the
category of anger from past and this life please be released now, as
there is no more need for me carry them around. Please find all,
remove all and clear all and continue till finished. Thank you."
7- Be still till no more energy flow is being
perceived. Or just wait for 30 seconds give or take. Smile.
8- Try to remember the situation when you were the
most angry in your life. Lets us call this memory . . . .
9- Say: "I ask that any stuck emotions from this
memory . . . and any other such type of memories from this
life and past life please be released now, as there is no more need
for me to carry them around. Please find all, remove all and clear
all and continue till finished. Thank you."
10- Please continue in this fashion for any angry
memory that comes to mind for you now or in the future. Depending on
a variety of factors such as sensitivity, attention or experience
you may experience a shift in energy when you call on your divine
support team. If you feel such a shift of energy you will probably
also feel such a shift when you start releasing old stuck emotions.
You can wait till the releasing energies have
settled before you move on to the next issue. If you know how to
use a pendulum you may monitor the release in that way. It is
advisable to go through your life and release the stuck emotions
from any time that you were angry. Here also a pendulum can be
useful to detect stuff that has nor been released.
11- I like to do this kind of work in a hot bath tub,
because the heat helps me to relax to a deeper level, maybe because
the situations reminds one of being in the womb.
12- Smiling into the liver which according to
traditional Chinese medicine, Chi Gong and also my own experience, is
the place in the physical body, where toxic emotions like anger are
being stored.
May everthing work out for you in the highest good
and divine harmony.
Wolfgang
e-mail:
heartsongs8@yahoo.com
